Episode 1. God's Abundant Blessing
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I wonder if in your heart of hearts if you’re one of these crazies who, like me, want to follow Jesus. I wonder if in your heart of hearts when you hear that word “blessing” your …
I wonder if in your heart of hearts if you’re one of these crazies who, like me, want to follow Jesus. I wonder if in your heart of hearts when you hear that word “blessing” your default position, your default understanding, your instant response is to equate the idea of blessing with success.
A MISMATCH OF EXPECTATIONS
You know what I think is one of the hardest things about following Jesus? It’s that God doesn’t always dish up what I expect Him to dish up. The hardest thing for me is that I, like most other people, well I’ve grown up in a world where we want to be successful. The world’s definition of success is all around us. We’re influenced by our culture and our culture tells us, society tells us, the advertising industry tells us, that we’re successful if we have lots of money, a nice house, a happy life, two cars, big flat TV screens dotted all round the place, all that stuff.
We’re successful if life’s going really well and people can look at us and say, “Wow, he’s successful”, or “she’s successful”. And we kind of equate this idea of success, an idea that’s been so deeply ingrained in our nature day after day, with God’s idea of blessing. We imagine that when God blesses us then we’ll be successful. If we’re being successful God must be blessing us, it goes without saying.
Does that sound vaguely familiar? And today and over these next few weeks we’re going to chat about why that one thing, this idea of success and blessing, as it turns out, is one of the toughest things about following Jesus in this day and age.
I wonder if in your heart of hearts if you’re one of these crazies who, like me, want to follow Jesus. I wonder if in your heart of hearts when you hear that word ‘blessing’ your default position, your default understanding, your instant response is to equate the idea of blessing with success.
I think there’s some of that in each one of us. Yeah, yeah, we kind of know that Jesus said in this world we’d have tribulation, John 16, verse 33, we know I guess that following Jesus in theory is going to be hard but surely that’s for other people.
You and me we want to pull up next to this idea of success. We so want to equate God’s blessing to success that we kind of ignore the other bits about suffering, about persecution, about laying down our lives, about taking up our cross and following Jesus because success is such a powerfully alluring concept and when God talks about blessing the two seem to go so well together that before we know it we’ve got our own little prosperity doctrine tucked away in our hearts.
We go through all the religious motions on the outside but on the inside we firmly believe that God’s going to bless us with success. Now of course sometimes He does but no ones life is a complete success. There are people listening today whose marriages are falling apart. There are people listening today who are serving the Lord in some far flung dark hole of a place and nothing they seem to be doing, just at the moment, is having any impact.
There are people struggling through things at work, through relationships, through family breakdown. There are people who have loved ones who’ve just died. There are people that … and when you’re in that place you kind of want to scream out and say, “God? Blessing? How dare this bloke on the radio talk to me about Gods blessing, I am not blessed by God, look at the mess and the pain that I’m in”. We all go through trials, we do.
And now I want to come right back to why this is one of the hardest things for me in following Jesus and I suspect for you too. It’s because deep down we expect God’s blessing to equal worldly success and when God doesn’t stump up with the success we’re expecting then if feels like everything we believe about God, everything we’ve struggled for in following Jesus is like a lie, like a false promise.
You and I know, when we stop and think about it, that a mismatch of expectations is always going to cause pain and conflict. If you expect me to do something or to say something or to behave in a certain way or deliver something and I don’t meet that expectation you’re going to be disappointed or angry or any number of other things with me, right?
And if I do it over and over again, if I miss your expectations over again eventually you’re going to get really, really cheesed off with me. And that’s where a lot of people are with Jesus right now.
“Well I tried following Jesus BUT …”
“But what?”
“Well … but He didn’t deliver what I expected. It was hard. I still had to suffer. I feel like He abandoned me.”
We all go through that, I’ve been walking with the Lord now almost two decades. A good proportion of that has been studying and preaching God’s Word. If anyone should be over that sense of disappointment it should be me right? And yet when I have to walk through trials and some of them go on for a long time, for years, the thing my natural “me” always wants to do is to act up and struggle with the fact that I’m going through some trial or another.
Why can’t everything just fall into place for once? Why can’t things be easier than what they are? So this series of messages that we’re kicking off today is called God’s Abundant Blessing and it’s all about God’s abundant blessing but it’s going to strike at the very heart of this mismatch of expectations. And we’re going to do that by unpacking exactly what it is that Jesus had to say about Gods blessing. So lets have a listen, Matthew chapter 5, verses 1 to 12:
When Jesus saw the crowds he came up the mountain and after he sat down his disciples came to him, then he began to speak and told them saying, ‘blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn for they’ll be comforted. Blessed are the meek for they will inherit the earth.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness for they’ll be filled. Blessed are the merciful for they will receive mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers for they’ll be called children of God and blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness sake for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are you when people revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. Rejoice and be glad for your reward is great in heaven for the same way they persecuted the prophets who went before you.
Now forget that perhaps you may have heard that many times before and let’s just take it face value what Jesus is saying here. He is saying, “You are blessed if you are poor in spirit, if you’re mourning, if you’re meek, if you’re persecuted, all that stuff”. Does that sound anything like the worlds version of success to you? No me neither.
Obviously Jesus has something different in mind and since He was talking to His Disciples when He said this stuff, His closest followers, those who were prepared not only to listen to His sermons but to model their lives on Him under His mentorship then my hunch is this is something we need to get our minds around. What Jesus means about blessing because His blessing is utterly amazing, it’s not what we expected it to be.
His blessing is amazing because it’s for real. He doesn’t sugar coat stuff, He’s in the business of speaking His blessing right in the middle of the stuff that we’re going through in our lives.
BLESSED ARE THE POOR IN SPIRIT
What I love about Jesus is that He doesn’t kind of pussy foot around. He doesn’t shy away from telling us the truth about things in our lives that other people wouldn’t dare to broach with us. Sometimes we need to be told just the way things are. When you or I have something really important wrong, a real friend is someone who fronts up and tells us.
And that’s exactly what Jesus was telling His disciples in the much famed Sermon on the Mount, Matthew chapter 5, and interesting the chapter before is the record of Jesus calling His closest twelve disciples out of the thousands of people, these huge crowds who were following Him.
And right off the back of that comes this Sermon on the Mount. Now it’s kind of hard to see exactly who that sermon was for. Was it for all the people who’d gathered on that hillside to hear Him or was it just for His closest inner circle of Disciples? Have a listen to how Matthew kicks off his account of this event:
When Jesus saw the crowds he went up to the mountain and after he sat down his disciples came to him then he began to speak and taught them saying, ‘Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
It’s not quite clear is it? But what is clear is that this dissertation is meant for His disciples. Whether they were the inner group of twelve or a much wider group. A disciple is literally a learner so it’s for the people who want to follow Jesus, to learn from Him and model their lives on His life and the very first thing that Jesus has to say about blessing, what was it again?
Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Now that right there brings the old ego down with a thud, It’s a great place to start because it talks about how we see ourselves. What Jesus seems to be saying here is that His blessing isn’t for those who are full of themselves, for those who think themselves really someone but for those who are real about who they are without Him.
Now we could easily make the mistake here of thinking, “Well that’s it, that confirms it, this Christianity thing is just a crux for losers. You have to be poor in spirit, you have to be somehow into self deprecation. See, religion is all about treading on people, manipulating people, making them feel small”. But that’s not what Jesus is talking about here because that’s not what He was into. In fact the religious leaders of the day were into that form of religion and Jesus tore shreds off them for being like that.
So what does He mean “poor in spirit”? What’s that all about? Who are the poor in spirit? John Wesley puts it this way:
They are the unfeignedly penitent. They who are truly convinced of sin. Who see and feel the state they are in by nature, deeply sensible of their sinfulness, guiltiness and helplessness.
The people, in other words, who truly recognise that they’ve fallen short of the glory of God and that they are totally, completely and utterly helpless to do anything about it to save themselves from the consequences. I wonder if you’re one of those people. For a long time I wasn’t. For a long time I thought of myself as being something of a hot shot, clever, capable, competent, self sufficient. God? God, who needs God?
And what Jesus is saying here to His Disciples, what He’s saying to you and me now is, that those with the attitude of who needs God, those who are full of themselves will not inherit the Kingdom of heaven and as a result they won’t be blessed.
Every time I fall short of God’s glory, every time I let Him down, every time I sin in my life I’m so disappointed with myself, I just know that in and of myself I can’t make it right. I’d like to but I can’t. I know the right thing to do, I just can’t seem to do it. It seems to me to be one of those basic principles of life, that whenever I want to do good, whenever I want to honour God, sin kind of sneaks up behind me and it’s ready to pounce.
And so I for one keep short accounts with God. I go and ask Him to forgive me not because I’m a great bloke but because Jesus died for me and paid the price of my sin on the cross. That’s what it means to be poor in spirit. It means to be real about how we truly are, who we are, what state we’re in and what’s going on in our hearts, in our minds, in our lives.
Jesus put it another way when He was talking to a Church, Revelations chapter 3, verse 17. He said:
You say, ‘I’m rich, I’ve prospered, I need nothing’. You don’t realise that you are wretched, pitiable, poor, blind and naked.
The ones who are truly blessed are the ones who recognise who they truly are. The ones who are prepared to nail their wretched pride and their false sense of self sufficiency and success to the cross and go before God and say, “God I’m not good enough, that’s why I’m coming to ask for your forgiveness in Jesus name. Not because I deserve it but because Jesus died to purchase it and I believe in Jesus.”
So does that mean that I’m a loser? That I’m somehow less of a person than someone who says they have it all together, am I? That’s what the critics would say. But what Jesus is saying here to the critics is that they’re delusional, they’re kidding themselves, they’re claiming something about themselves that’s not true. You say I’m rich, I’ve prospered, I don’t need anything. You don’t realise you’re wretched, pitiable, poor, blind and naked.
My friend if you’ve never taken that step of admitting the truth about yourself, to yourself and to God, today’s the day, the very day to do it and if you’re someone who’s admitted it and today again you find yourself falling short of Gods glory then today’s the day to go before God and admit again. Why? Because:
Blessed are the poor in spirit, theirs is the Kingdom of heaven.
It’s the only way we get into the Kingdom of heaven, by trusting in Jesus and there quite simply is no greater blessing on the planet or off it, than that.
BLESSED ARE THOSE WHO MOURN
Jesus went on to say:
Blessed are those who mourn.
When we lose a loved one or when we’re retrenched or when a fire or flood destroys our house or whatever other loss or hurt would cause us to mourn because when we’re mourning a loss it’s at that time in our lives, perhaps more so than any other time, that we experience a sense of disappointment with God’s promises of blessing.
Here’s what Jesus talks about in His Sermon on the Mount, Matthew chapter 5, verse 4 says:
Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted.
Now if ever something Jesus said seems crazy this would have to be it. Think back to the last time you were mourning a loss, what was it? Was it a death, was it a breakdown of a relationship, was it retrenchment, unemployment, what was it?
You know immediately what it was because you remember the pain, you remember the loss, you remember that sense of hopelessness and feeling completely alone. You can remember how dark and cold and lonely that place felt even if perhaps you had some people around you to comfort you, you can remember that can’t you?
So can I ask you, right in the middle of the last time where you were mourning some great loss, you were grieving, were you happy? Did you feel blessed? I didn’t think so and yet Jesus has the temerity to say:
Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted.
Now let’s unpick that just quickly so we understand the full force of what He’s saying. Firstly that word “blessed”, now there are a few Greek words used in the New Testament which are translated into the English word “blessed” and in many respects this is the strongest one, it’s the most direct one, it literally means ‘happy’. In fact some of the older translations of the Bible, you may have heard it put this way:
Happy are those who mourn for they will be comforted.
And please note with me that that word happy is set in the present tense. So right in the middle of that time of loss and grieving and mourning Jesus is saying, “You can be and you should be happy because you will be (that’s future tense) comforted.” Let me ask you something, can that be true? I mean come on, really.
Grieving is grieving, it’s a process, there are different stages of grieving that are well understood by psychologists and counsellors. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance, it’s the traditional model although there are some variations round that. But pretty much anyone who’s ever been through grief and mourning will recognise those, it’s really, really tough. So is it really possible for us to stick this label “happy” right in the middle of that?
I’ve had one major episode of loss in my life, there have been other ones, smaller along the way but one really significant one and it was in the middle of the darkest period of my life, that time of mourning, that time of loss, that time of desperation that I met Jesus. I can attest to the fact that in the middle of the darkest days of my life what Jesus says is true.
I’ll get to that, my personal experience in a moment but over the years I’ve spoken with many, many people who’ve been through times of mourning. In fact as I read and answer many emails we receive here at Christianityworks in response to these radio messages, one of the most common questions that I find myself responding to is this, how does what you had to say the other day relate to his particular loss or grief in my life?
Now it’s not always those words but that’s kind of what lies behind the heart of many questions and it’s my great privilege to be able to speak God’s love and God’s truth into those situations in people’s lives. And most often the response I receive after that is this sense of revelation and comfort at the powerful way in which God’s Word ministers into people’s lives at that difficult time of mourning.
You know what really strikes me, without God’s Word apart from knowing the truth we’re so completely and utterly lost. We’re in this dark place and there seems no way out until the light of Jesus shines into that place and all of a sudden we can see and feel and experience His warmth. For me it’s so often, in fact almost always begins with knowing the truth in the middle of our mourning and grief.
My friend if you’re mourning a loss right now please listen to the truth, you are blessed because Jesus means to comfort you, that’s the truth and in a very real way, I remember in the darkest places of my life during mourning and grief, during that process of bereavement, it went on for a good many months, it was awful.
There were so many days when it felt like I was being torn apart and yes there were some well meaning friends around me who tried to comfort me but when you’re in that place and if you’re in that place right now I think you’ll relate to this, nothing other people say seems to be able to make a difference, seems to make even a dent, it’s like this black shield around us and no one can get through.
It was like the grief had put this impenetrable invisible barrier between me and every other human being. It’s the best way I can describe it but in that inky blackness I decided to start reading my Bible, it was a weird response I know but that’s what I did.
In that dark place I started to pray and I was totally bowled over, the very presence of God Himself was palpable, God was present in that place with me and the fact that there was a shield around me that no one else could get through and here I was in my dark place and only God could get in, made Gods presence even more powerful and wonderful and I look back on that with great joy.
He encouraged me, I discovered later the word that Jesus used to describe the Holy Spirit to His disciples when they were in fear for their lives, literally means ‘encourager and comforter’. And that’s exactly what God was to me in that place.
It’s kind of bizarre to look back on because the pain and mourning went on as I said for a long time but in the middle of that was God, very real, very present, to comfort me through and I came out of that time a totally different person. Can I tell you? Far from perfect, right, but totally different. Perhaps you’ve heard me say this before but whilst I wouldn’t wish that much pain on my worst enemy I wouldn’t swap that time in my life for all the tea in China.
Pain is never easy, mourning and grief are never easy, they’re not meant to be but whatever their cause if you will just sit still before God we will discover the greatest blessing of all. See God Himself is the greatest blessing of all, God Himself is the one who comes and consoles us in our grief, who sits with us in the dark place, who shines light and warmth into our hearts in the middle of that inky blackness of mourning.
Jesus said:
Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted.
I just pray that you’ll be blessed in that way in your life. If you’re mourning right now or maybe there’s going to be a time of mourning that comes later on in your life, you know we all want our lives to go along happy don’t we? We all want our lives to go along, everything’s going well but it’s not like that.
Accidents happen, people die, people leave us, people betray us, all sorts of things happen in life and when they happen and we’re in that dark place I pray that as I’ve spoken God’s Word into your life right now you’ll remember this one verse and the Holy Spirit will bring it back to you just at the time that you need it.
This is what Jesus said, these are Jesus’ very own words, remember this ain’t Berni saying this to you, this is Jesus saying this to you and me, to the disciples of His:
Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted.
My friend to me this is one of the most powerful messages I’ve ever been able to share with anyone anywhere because I remember so vividly my time of mourning and I remember how much I needed someone to tell me this and how much I needed the Holy Spirit to write this truth on my heart to get me through.
Because me talking about it is not going to make a difference, the only difference that’s going to happen when the Holy Spirit takes the Word of God and writes it on your heart. So let me say it again that you may never ever, ever, ever forget it.
Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted.
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